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Monday, August 13, 2012

What Makes a Hero Hot?


Welcome to the Hot Summer Heroes blog hop! We, Alexis, Dawn, and Marie, the writers of Happily Ever After Thoughts, are thrilled to have you with us. We did a little brainstorming and each came up with what we think makes a hero HOT! We'd really like to hear what you think steams up the pages of a romance novel, so leave a comment for us. All people who comment will be entered into a drawing for a $25 Amazon card from HEAT. In addition, the winner of our drawing is entered into the Hot Summer Heroes blog hop drawing for a $100 Barnes and Noble Gift Card, so be sure to leave a comment here AND on any of the other blogs on the hop. Enjoy the HEAT :-)

MARIE
What makes a hero hot? What makes me melt? Well, it can be so many things. I think one of the biggest things for me is a sense of humor. Yup, I love a man who can make me laugh, whether in real life or in the pages of a book. That and a pair of dancing eyes. And a charming, though devilish smile (commonly known as a sh**-eating grin). Oh, and broad shoulders…you know the kind….wide enough to bear the weight of the world but still soft enough to offer comfort.

Sorry, I’m getting off the subject. Confidence, most definitely. Confidence will make me take notice and makes a man, in my humble opinion, sexy. A man does not need to be drop-dead gorgeous, doesn’t need to be tall, dark and deadly, if he has confidence and humor. 

But the biggest turn on of all? Love for his family and respect for women. Show me a man who loves his mother, his wife (or future wife if he doesn’t quite realize it yet) and his children (or future children), and I’ve melted into a puddle. Show me a man who has respect for women—not just the woman in his life, but all women--and I’ll show you a man who will have respect for you. And believe me, that makes the hottest hero!

DAWN
I have to start with my amateur pledge…a man has to be taller, weigh more, and have shorter hair than mine.  That shouldn’t be too hard for most men-five feet three, license says one-twenty-five, and hair beneath the shoulder,-L’Oreal Chocolate Cherry. :-)

The things that really count are honesty, confidence, and a tad bit of strength in body and mind.  Or is it in mind and body?  

Getting technical, I like deep, straight stares from any color eye, big pecs, and the only “no” he’ll respond to is from me or his CO (Commanding Officer).  I do like a military man…can be historically or present, of course.  They’re all hot.

A hard, honest man is my choice…I have to go now…my mind is starting to wander…the cover I chose is calling me…

ALEXIS
What makes a hero hot for me is his soul. I like a man who is honorable, loyal, compassionate, and confident. If he has suffered and come through it with scars to prove it, be they physical or emotional, I'm there. He's lived and triumphed. There is also something about a man who has a need that a woman can fulfill that makes him hotter than hot.

Two other characteristics I like are that he makes me feel protected, and he thinks the world of me. If a man makes a woman feel like she can do anything and he will be there to support her and protect her, then that is hot. 

Of course, I also think strength, intelligence, and hair on the chest make a hot hero. What's with the shaved chest trend? Much prefer a man to look like a man, not a boy or, gulp, a woman. Maybe I'm showing my age.

Hmm, as I look at what I wrote I realize I just described my husband! No wonder I am living a happily ever after with my fireman :-)

So let us know what you think makes a hero hot and you will be entered into the drawing for a $25 Amazon gift card!

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139 comments:

  1. What makes a hero hot is a great brain! The mind is the sexiest part of the body :)

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    1. Very true. The hero must be as smart as the heroine :-)

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  2. A hot hero knows his job and does it well but doesnt know his heart until is smacks him in the face
    hollybwrightatcomcastdotnet

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  3. To love sooooooo deep & hard N action as well as deed says a lot..ditto!
    redz041@yahoo.com

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  4. A hero is someone who does whats right. What makes him a hot hero to me is that he will suffer and give of himself to stay loyal and keep doing whats right. Especially when it involves someone or something that he treasures even above his own life.
    LadyVampire2u AT gmail DOT com

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  5. nice picks...I like confidence with a little arrogance. Hard and crunchy on the outside and soft and chewy on the inside ;)sstogner1 at gmail dot com

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    1. You just described Marie Patrick's husband to a tee :-)

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  6. Great post :)
    I think they need to be strong and willing to stand for and up to what they belive in.
    elliott2668 at yahoo dot com

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    1. Here, Here. No worse turn-off than a wishy-washy hero. I love it when the heroine challenges what he believes in.

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  7. Love the post! Uh, lethal. I always go with lethal. How shallow am I?!? LOL!

    Caris

    carisroane@gmail.com

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    1. Hmmm, shallow. But you are honest :-) I have to admit that I do like that my husband was a sharp shorter in the Air Force, so I guess I'm right there with you girl :-)

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  8. Awesome post, ladies! I'm going with the protective, honorable men that fight and protect their ladies from harm. *Le sigh*

    imsocool(at)gmail(dot)com

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  9. A guy who is not only gorgeous, but is kind and caring. someone you know that will always be with you, no matter what.

    jennirv4967 at gmail dot com

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  10. I love all the ideas everyone is coming up with even if I didn't say it myself! Men have a lot to live up to for us women.
    And Caris, yes lethal is hot. When my husband was an active Marine, he had the title of Second Most Deadly without a weapon. But I'm not afraid of him:)
    Alexis, it's great that our husbands fit these tasty descriptions.
    I can't wait to hear what else makes a man hot!!

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  11. Hmmm....a hero is hot when he's got that tender heart on the inside (the one where it's completely obvious to everyone but him that he's in love and wants to be loved in return) but on the outside he's Alpha and strong, kind of a bad ass attitude sort-of look. :)

    Thanks for the chance to win! Lovin' the covers of these books your showing!

    molly at reviewsbymolly dot com

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    1. Glad you like the covers. We each picked one we thought would be good for a hot hero for a summer read :-)

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  12. Ooooh, good descriptions! Personally I'm a sucker for an alpha male... in camo pants and combat boots, lots of tattoos.... is it getting hot in here?

    Thanks for the awesome hop!
    Liz
    liz at fictional candy dot com

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    1. Liz, it is totally hot in here! Boy do we all know what we want!

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  13. Wonderful description, Jennifer! I agree 100% :-)

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  14. My idea of a perfect hero is all alpha male.

    kesummer69 at gmail dot com

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  15. I think they have to be intellgent and have a sense of humor. crystaley73 at yahoo dot com

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  16. I like a guy with intelligence and sort of a quiet grace, fierce loyalty, and good humor.

    vitajex(at)aol(dot)com

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  17. I like the same things everyone else has already mentioned, but one other thing is missing for me - tattoos :)

    Thank you for the giveaway!

    msromanticreads at gmail dot com

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  18. confidence and gentleness together is hot I think
    ariannecruz07 at gmail dot com

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  19. intelligent and gentle! =)
    readingromances.contactATgmailDOTcom

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  20. I love a hero who embraces his feelings and does the chasing. And muscles. Lots of muscles :) Thanks for doing this giveaway!
    ~Krista
    pinkbonanza{ AT }gmail{ DOT }com

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    1. I'd never turn down a man with muscles unless they were developed in a gym. Too much muscle from a gym means he's too into himself and won't have time for me. I like "real" muscles. You know, from logging, construction work, fire fighting ;-)

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  21. I see confidence as a top pick for our own heroes. Do they have to be confident in everything or a select few items??
    I don't need an explanation for intelligence as a good conversation with your pick is great!
    And what kind of tattoos are a turn on for you, Michelle?

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  22. I love a strong alpha hero who will do anything for those he loves.
    Thanks for the giveaway!
    suz2(at)cox(dot)net

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    1. Oh yes. Be still my heart (fans self furiously).

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  23. Definitely his dedication to his heroine! :-)

    justforswag(AT)yahoo(DOT)com

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  24. Woohoo! Loving this hop!
    A hero is HOT when he’s an alpha; tall, handsome, sexy, with a sense of humor, loyal, and a BAD ASS! He doesn’t want anyone to know that he is soft on the inside, especially for his woman.
    <^_^>
    Thanks for being part of the hop and for the chance to win.
    reneebennett35(at)yahoo(dot)com

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    1. Oh yes, love the men who hide the softness. Happy to have you hear Nay Nay.

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  25. strength of character, sense of humor (even if cynical or warped), a tenderness for & determination to take care of those he loves or feels need protecting. and of course being extremely easy on the eyes doesn't hurt either ;)

    gamistress66 (at) aol (dot) com

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    1. Oh,"strength of character." I like that. Good to see you again :-)

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  26. A Hot Hero to me is one that is rough around the edges, stubborn , broody but inside has a heart of gold as well as a fierce protectiveness to those he cares about.

    vampiremistress2010(at)gmail(dot)com

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    1. Broody? Hmm, now that is interesting. I wonder why?

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  27. A hot hero to me is a little be of softness along with a little bit of roughness.
    Thanks for the giveaway.
    kimberly.a.shook(at)gmail(dot)com

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  28. For me what makes a hero hot is he has to be an alpha male, strong, powerful, confident, but at the same time has a tender side to him, is passionate and shows loyalty to the people around him. Oh and he has to look gorgeous. :)

    Thanks for the giveaway!

    redfirewood888(AT)yahoo(DOT)ca

    Ollie aka DarkBloodyVamp

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    1. What I like about Romance novels is how a hero looks is mostly in the reader's head. An author can describe him, but if that description was given to 10 female sketch artists, I'd bet we'd get 10 different faces :-)

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  29. Oh my gosh!!!! Look at all these great comments! Sorry, I was at work (and missed all this today)....just got home and saw all this and WOW!!! We sure do know what we want, don't we?

    Marie

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  30. What makes a hero especially hot for me? A uniform. Give me a military man, police officer, fire fighter...I jut swoon for those heroes.
    catherinelee100 at gmail dot com

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    1. You are easy to please, Catherine. Nice to see you again :-)

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  31. I agree with the humor part, if I cant laugh with you, we wont have much to do. He should be tall, Maybe a couple tatt's and a accent. Have power and loyalty. Thx for giveaway.

    blinkysthebest at aol dot com

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  32. Hot guys are Alpha, smart, strong, confident, love with no shame, funny, love kids, protective, generous and great in bed! :)
    ana (at) anas-attic (dot) com

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    1. OMG, I totally forgot about the "great in bed." Thanks for reminding me. I guess I just figured that was a given :-}

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  33. I love a great sense of humor. I want him tall, with nice muscles, an accent would be awesome and the "chest thumping, you are mine" look when he sees me! *le swoon*

    proudarmymom32(at)yahoo(dot)com

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  34. Hi Love the HOP!!! I love a guy that thinks about me just as much as himself! I hate guys that think being romantic is not manly! Thanks for the contest!

    swkimbell@yahoo.com

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  35. Unfortunately, many men don't know what romantic is. Maybe they could read this blog hop and get an idea :-)

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  36. His intelligence

    bn100candg(at)hotmail(dot)com

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  37. Hmmmm. Confidence is so sexy. Love a hero that knows who he is and what he wants :)

    Thanks!
    acade29@gmail.com

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  38. He must be willing to do anything for the people he loves.

    Daniela
    dany7578 at hotmail dot com

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  39. I'd have to say intelligence, willingness to laugh at himself and a nice butt helps LOL. Caring and protective as well as romantic are always a big plus. Thanks for the great prize!
    -Dawn aka dawnmomoffour
    thedoyle6@rogers.com

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    1. Hmm, a nice butt, a nice chest, a brain and a heart cannot be beat ;-)

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  40. For me, the guy who is willing to make the commitment and do the work necessary for a relationship to succeed is hot. Add on that he's willing to put his woman above ANY and EVERY thing, except his children, and he's Hot. Willing to kill, or die, to protect his woman and children = HOT. If he'll stand at the gates of hell to fight for what he believes in and what's right, he rates Hawt. All the above plus a sense of honor, intelligence, kindness, honesty, strength, humor, and humility and he's truly HAWT!

    I don't ask for much, huh?

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    1. No you don't. You are simply asking for a hot hero :-)

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  41. A hero does the right thing for those he cares about - tho strength is needed in certain situations, compassion is always needed.
    sallans d at yahoo dot com

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    1. I agree. Heroes should be soft on the inside :-)

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  42. A sexy body, a kind heart, a good sense of humor and humility.
    Thanks for the giveaway.
    Crystal816[at]hotmail[dot]com

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    1. Hmm, humility. Not sure I have seen many Alpha heroes with that trait. But wouldn't it be great?

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  43. A great hero is normal. He's flawed but redeemable. He has compassion. He's honest and he's courageous.

    justpeachy36@yahoo.com

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    1. I like the "flawed but redeemable" trait. Good addition!

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  44. A hero is hot when he is brave and protects people without hesitation and does not expect anything in return!

    reviewsbyabby at gmail dot com

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  45. These are such great descriptions for real life and for romance novels!
    Most mentioned are about personality, which is fabulous, and I did see a couple "butts" and other hot parts of the body mentioned:)
    Don't' you wonder what men would write for their requirements about women??

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    1. No kidding, Dawn. I'd love to see what men would say!

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  46. My ideal hero is someone that is more dominate! I like a guy that knows how to take charge! I love Cabal from Lora Leigh’s series Breeds.

    Thank you for the giveaway!

    jessharrison78@yahoo.com

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    1. Ah yes, the self-sacrificing honorable hero. Can I swoon now?

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  47. Alexis stole my answer lol, honest, honorable and hot as hell! Carin
    mawmom at gmail dot com

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  48. There are so many things that might/can make a man hot. Yes the good looks, tall, strong, could be an alpha male type. A sexy gravelly voice, dreamy eyes. A go-getter, hard working, kind, thoughtful and unselfish. Witty sense of humor, love for family and friends. Confident in himself and those around him.

    cms72023(at)gmail(dot)com

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  49. Can't say I disagree with that description either, Carin!

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  50. Christine, I think you just summarized our thoughts!

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  51. You know, I don't think I have ever met a man with green eyes. I seem to be attracted to brown :-}

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  52. I Love a tall man one with big hands. I feel more secure and one who is not afraid to show how they feel. One who is strong but sweet. thanks Joannie jscddmj [at] aol [dot] com

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    1. Ah, show how he feels. Yes, we must be satisfied with that because we know they will never tell us ;-)

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  53. Other than the tall, dark, & handsome characteristics, I love an intelligent, dominate man who is respectful and caring, and who has a sense of humor (can be wicked, lol).
    June
    manning_j2004 at yahoo dot com

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  54. let's see, to me a hero is hot when he is the bad boy with s soft spot for a lucky lady :) I like it when the guys pursue the women and their protective streak kicks up... and it never hurts if they are tall, dark, and handsome... thanks for the contest! Book Savvy Babe
    booksavvybabe at gmail dot com

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  55. A hot hero for me is a bit of a bad boy, he's tough on the outside, but inside he's hurting and needs a good woman to heal him. He's also honest, loyal, confident, sexy, possessive, has a sense of humor and will fight for what he believes in.
    Makes me melt everytime.
    luvfuzzzeeefaces at yahoo dot com

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  56. When he has a great sense of humor and a great big dollop of empathy!

    thank you for the giveaway!
    melorabrock (at) gmail (dot) com

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  57. A take charge Alpha is a hero in my eyes! Thanks for the chance to win :) raynman1979 at yahoo dot com

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  58. i can say the fire dept here in our area is the hero we have had so many fire and then they did help 8 family out of complexe but they are call ed out every day for the fire in our areas

    desi the blonde at mdn dot com

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  59. I would love a hero that is strong, an Alpha Male with a kind heart..

    ronnkelly3(at)aol(dot)com

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  60. June, I agree. A sense of humor is great, even if I don't always understand it...It's still part of him.

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  61. I see many like 'em strong on the outside and soft inside! That includes the firemen, Desi and Alexis.
    Carol, I'll have to check out Nathan in the KGI series-sounds fantastic!

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  62. Protective and tall, dark, and handsome is a winner for sure, Julianne!
    And Ronnkelly and Rissa, alpha says it all!
    Empathy is so much better than sympathy, Anme:)

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  63. A hero that shows his vulnerable side is hot.
    bituin76 AT hotmail DOT com

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  64. Doing his duty against the odds maybe even a bit rough about the edges, but yet gentle with the heroine.

    Thanks for participating in the hop and for the giveaway opportunity.
    sophiarose1816@gmail.com

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  65. I agree with everyone. Alexis definitely got my hero right! Thanks for being in the hop!
    Mel
    bournmelissa at hotmail dot com

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  66. A hot hero has both physical & emotional strength. Is loyal and dedicated!
    modularmates(at)comcast(dot)net

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  67. thanks for the contest, i would say my hero would be someone like butch from BDB lol i just him hehe so yea that would be what my hero would be like like him

    pademe_lee@yahoo.com

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  68. A hero is someone that knows what to do when it gets tough! I like when they are somewhat protective and gorgeous…of course!
    Lucan rom Kiss of Midnight is my absolute favorite hero… and a vampire to boot! SO SEXY!
    Thanks so much!!
    donnasing777@yahoo.com

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  69. Thank you for the great giveaway! I really love strong Alpha males who are protective!
    Latisha D
    tishajean@ charter.net

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  70. Alpha all the way! And Donna, I've really gotten into vampires lately myself:)

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  71. Great abs and strong arms.
    magic5905 at embarqmail dot com

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  72. A gorgeous body is fantastic but I want the guy to be beautiful on the inside too.

    riverinaromantic AT aol DOT com

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  73. Beautiful inside and out is definitely a complete package!

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  74. When the man is confident and brave :)
    Thanks a lot for the giveaway!
    by.evie at yahoo dot com dot br

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  75. The attitude and ability to be the strong alpha but also caring and loving

    bacchus76 at myself dot com

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  76. A hot hero is a man who is strong, devoted and chest hair free... just saying ;)

    megnate at telus dot net

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  77. Confidence, courage, and loyalty is what I think makes a hero hot.
    molly dot frenzel at gmail dot com

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  78. I really go for the guy that has just a little too much testosterone LOL but has the lady that he allows to kick his ass back inline! Kresely Cole is great at those characters! Conrad is all badass in her book but Neomi kicks back! Love them! Great contest! Thanks!

    evelynmoly@yahoo.com

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  79. I like a hero who can appreciate a stong heroine.

    ainfingerATcomcastDOTnet

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  80. All the typical "hero" traits, like strenth, attractiveness, etc, but I really think a hero has to be sweet, ESPECIALLY to the ones he loves.
    Thanks for the giveaway! I'd love to enter if it's international.

    jessicamariesutton(at)msn(dot)com

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  81. My ideal hot hero is tall, dark with blue eyes. And to me, the hottest part is strong, wide shoulders.

    spamscape [at] gmail [dot] com

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  82. I like my hero to have a sense of humor, and the most important trait is he has to be faithful.

    jmesparza821(at)gmail(dot)com

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  83. I love a hero who's strong, trustworthy, and funny! And being hot wouldn't hurt too ;)
    laceyblossom1(at)gmail(dot)com

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  84. I love alpha heroes who are strong but are gentle with the person they love.

    mythic021@gmail.com

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  85. A Hot Hero needs to have confidence, be strong and willing to stand for to what they believe in.

    s2s2 at comcast dot net

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  86. I like my heroes Alpha, protective, intelligent, amusing, damaged and redeemable!
    Thanks for the amazing giveaway!
    elizabeth @ bookattict . com
    GFC: BookAttict

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  87. My hero has got to make me laugh at the same time he makes my toes curl!
    GFC- Lisa Richards
    alterlisa AT yahoo DOT com
    Thanks for participating in this hop!
    (\___/)
    (='.'=)
    (")_(")

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  88. Sexy, strong, loyal and fearless! Ian from Killer Secrets by Lora Leigh emobodies this. He fought for what he wanted and would not give up! Ian is one of the best hero’s that I’ve ever read. He had flaws but used them for good. His courage was inspiring.


    Love the conest. THANKS!

    prettyunicorn78@yahoo.com

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  89. I really like Alpha males as my Hero’s! My ALL time favorite hero’s are Blay and Quinn in BDB. They have not had their “HEA” YET but it’s soon!!!!!! AND I CAN’T WAIT!!!!!!!!!!
    Thanks for the great hop and all the chances to win great prizes!
    forettarose@yahoo.com

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  90. Strong , handsome,sexy.
    r.d1@myfairpoint.net

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  91. Intelligent, strong but compassionate with a sense of humor.
    Thanks for the giveaway
    rilekat at gmail dot com

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  92. Heroes should be honest, honorable and hot!
    thanks, Carin
    mawmom at gmail dot com

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  93. A hero who puts everyone's welfare first, and is honest.
    sqwalker2@hotmail.com

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  94. Feirce protectivnes, loyalty, honor and willingness to show his love without shame! Right now I am reading Kresley Cole’s IAD series. There are some amazing men in that series! Bowen and Lachlain are my favorite two. Thank you for the amazing contest!
    mandicounter@yahoo.com

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  95. A hero needs to be loyal, passionate and have a great sense of humor. He can be all alpha too, that's hot!

    beckerjo at verizon dot net

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  96. I love a man who has a strong personality. One who knows what he wants and how to get it! ;)
    I like him to be more like a caveman, but he has to be loyal, protective of his family, love and friends, someone I can count on. And I can't forget passionate! As far as looks, tall, dark and muscled. I married him (minus the caveman part). Hehe. Thank you for the awesome giveaway and for sharing your hero types!
    trb0917 at gmail.com

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  97. I'm happy to announce that Holls is the winner of our stop on the Hot Summer Heroes blog hop. She will receive a $25 gift card to Amazon.com. The grand prize winner should be announced on Tuesday :-)

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